Blog entry

Sharing the Love - Meet Poly's Pleasures.

beautiful chainmail top by Polys Pleasures, a friend of Serenity in Chains


Meet my friends at Poly's Pleasures!


One of the things I love so much about owning Serenity in Chains is that I get to travel around the country, meeting so many amazing people. One such trip landed me in front of a gorgeous chainmail top that I just had to touch and admire.

It was in the booth of Poly's Pleasure, and I fell in love with their work and want to share them with you!

Sexual Assault Awareness Month

April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month


April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month!


Can we get serious for a moment? I want to take a minute to recognize that this is Sexual Assault Awareness month. 

Sadly, 1 in 5 women and 1 in 71 men will experience sexual assault in their lifetime according to the CDC. It's a frightening statistic compounded by things like victim shaming, social stigma, and lack of reporting. It needs to stop, and that starts with awareness, reporting, and victim support.


How to go collared to family gatherings!

How to go collared at family get togethers


3 tips to wearing your bdsm collar at family and holiday gatherings.


The holidays are coming up. And that means family dinner with Aunt Penny and Uncle Tom, whom know nothing about your chosen lifestyle and certainly would not approve

What are you going to do about your collar? Are you going to take it off, Are you OK with taking it off? Is your significant other ok with taking it off? No?

Ok, now what? How do you wear a collar to a family event without starting a judgment fest on your life?


Hide it in plain sight!

How to go collared 24/7 at work and other public places.

how to wear a bdsm collar at work


How to wear a bondage collar at work and other public places.


It's the biggest problem in the BDSM community. How the heck do you wear your collar to work without getting fired, or to the grocery store without getting harassed. Surprisingly, the solution is really very simple.


Hide it in plain sight!

Going collared 24/7 without losing your job or getting persecuted by the vanilla world is surprisingly easy, and it all starts with CHOOSING the type of collar that fits your beautifully unique life.