Let’s face it, our way of life has been completely interrupted by the covid-19 pandemic. We can’t go out to eat, we can’t meet up with friend and loved ones, and we can’t have our normal play dates.
In short, it sucks. Big, slobbery, drooling blowing sort of suck.
No wait… we can’t do that either right now.
Nothing is the same since the coronavirus has spread around the globe. And for many of us that means we feel completely lost as to what to do with ourselves.
For some, that could lead to a mental crash that isn’t healthy, and ultimately makes us more susceptible to catching the virus.
No Bueno my sexy friend.
Beyond the anxiety of being in self Quarantine, especially if you are alone, is the sheer boredom of not having your normal activities. All this free time that we once longed for can become a bane if you don’t know what to do with it.
Don’t worry, I’ve got 5 things that you can do TODAY to help fill that void, boost your mood and immune system, and make Quarantine a little more sexy.
1. Dress up for your own damn self.
I know what you might be thinking… no one will see you but YOU. That’s ok!
Playing a little dress-up can elevate your mood and help you feel sexy and confident in a time of extreme uncertainty. You might find new combinations within your wardrobe and jewelry that you never thought of before.
Mix and match your lingerie with new jewelry pieces, or slip some nipple jewelry on and try it out with new tops and skirts. You’ll feel like a whole new sexy vixen.
Plus, it’s just plain fun.
But beyond that playing dress-up can lead to new and exciting activities and ideas.
Did someone say sexy school-girl roleplay?
2. Roleplay via Video chat.
With social distancing in full swing face-to-face play might not be possible, especially if you don’t live with your partner(s). Instead, set up your phone or webcam for a sexy video chat roleplay scene.
Negotiate what will happen, and all your appropriate safe words. Then take turns acting out your parts, telling each other what to do and where to touch.
Video chat roleplay will help you continue to feel connected with your partner(s) while being physically apart, and also help boost your mood.
Plus, this might give you both new sexy ideas for activities when quarantine really does end.
Live with your partner(s)? Try this in separate rooms.
Have your Dom/Sir/Daddy sit in one room while you and in the other, and act out your sexy scene separately. You’ll maintain social distancing standards and create a new level of excitement.
You might find this becomes a regular rotation in your love play.
3. Do a little Self Exploration.
Maybe you aren’t with a partner right now, or maybe your schedules don’t line up. Take this time to explore yourself and your desires.
After you play a little dress up, try dressing down slowly and sensually. Explore what feels good, and what makes you aroused. You can even record yourself or do this in a mirror for extra excitement (just make sure to store recordings safely).
Try a new technique, or a new toy. Explore a new option for play dates.
Do you enjoy nipple play? Try wearing your non piercing nipple jewelry for a bit before slipping between the sheets for a little solo activity. The nooses often heighten sensation, and you might find that a nipple-gasm is your new best friend.
Not only may you discover new way to please your body, but orgasms are scientifically shown to boost your immune system and keep you mentally and emotionally more stable.
It’s a win, win…..WIN!
4. Catch up on all your sexy shows.
Did someone say Outlander?
Take some time to get caught up an all your favorite sexy shows that you’ve been missing out on. You know, the ones you usually watch with the blinds closed in the middle of the night?
You can even set up a watch party with your partner via video chat, which will probably lead to one of the other sexy activities above.
And you don’t have to limit yourself to what’s on Hulu or Netflix. Explore the wide world on the interwebs, and go as deep as you want.
You have time, there is no rush.
5. Self-care and After-care.
Now that you are exhausted from all your sexy activities it’s time to take care of yourself and your partner(s).
If you are flying solo draw a hot bath and use your favorite bath bomb. Or my favorite, wrap up in a fuzzy blanket and do a little meditation (I can this the stress burrito). Or, play your favorite video game for awhile and grind out some levels.
If you are partnered up, it’s a good time to talk about what you both need as after-care. Maybe it’s a mutual stress burrito. Maybe it’s just a hug. And maybe you both need to slay the demons of hell in Diablo together.
Whatever it is, doing a little of that right now it a great way to continue to feel connected and cared for during the pandemic.
Regardless of if you are partnered up or not, filling the time with sexy activities and caring for your body’s needs not only feel great, but they can help boost your immune system. Having a strong immune system is extremely important especially right now.
But more than that, taking a little sexy time-out can help your mental and emotional state to remain stable, keeping you not only healthier but happier and more connected.
By practicing these 5 activities, you’ll feel sexier and more connected than ever!